Folded thought of the day: I'd like to post a few of your responses to Tuesday's ramble on the Art of Making Sense. But first, an observation. I really don't like it when people preface a sentence in a way that allows them to seemingly say whatever they want without worrying about the response. Let me illustrate. When someone says "Now don't take this personally but..." there's a very good chance that they're going to say something that you will take very personally. But when they preface the sentence this way they think they can get away with it. "Hey, I told you not to take it personally..." Another example (and this one really bothers me) is when people say something like "Now, I mean this will all due respect, but..." What the heck does that mean? You know that the person is about to say something incredibly disrespectful. "Don't take this the wrong way" means there's probably no "right" way you will be able to take whatever they're going to say. You get the idea. I just had to get that off my chest. Now, onto some of your observations. "Going to college straight out of high school just because all of your friends are or because your parents/guidance counselor/teacher think you should is not important. Waiting until you've had some life experience and know what you want from college makes sense." -- J. Bobbitt "Pressuring your children to 'get into the right pre-school' or to 'win at all costs' is meaningless. Teaching your children what it takes for them to accept themselves, to be happy, and to play fair is not." -- G. Schmid "Working 60 to 80 hours per week so that you can earn enough money to make your life and that of your children's easier or better does not make sense. Taking time to enjoy life by doing a little thing such as sitting in a park or taking in a movie at home with your family or friends does." -- C. Bright "Putting someone off, putting distance or a barrier between you because they are different and you fear being painted with the same brush with which they have been stereotyped not only doesn't make sense but is counter-productive to ones own self. Letting go of petty fears and caring for people not only makes good sense but makes good... period." -- T. C. Johnson "Trying to be the kind of person everyone expects you to be is not important. Liking the kind of person you already are makes sense." -- P. Subject "Spending all your daughters childhood making money so that she can have whatever she wants and finding that what she wanted was you." -- T. Gray "Going to the gym and running around on those machines like a rat to get your exercise does not make sense. Going to a local basketball court and shooting hoops with friends makes sense." -- stig "Paying $5 for coffee at a yuppie espresso place does not make sense. Paying 50 cents for an 'endless cup of joe' at a diner makes sense." -- cadillac Excellent observations my little Fold'ers. Keep 'em coming.